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Absent Fathers, Lost Sons: The Search for Masculine Identity by Guy Corneau
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
A book that helps to figure out some of the issues lurking in man’s subconsciousness. It surely opened doors of alternative thinking over my past and present motives of behavior. The archetypes presented in Corneaus work are devised from Jung’s Depth psychology. The stories are based on experience and observations of his patients and himself. One has to be careful to ascribe oneself traits and patterns that reflect in the stories. No person is a clear cut archetype, rather a compound of several characteristics. Whether it is the good guy, the pleaser, the bohemian, the warrior, … those archetypes all stem from 2 basic needs successfully suppressed in modern men – intimacy and aggressivity. While scared, and uninitiated young boy strives to become a man it inevitably results in failure and substitutes – the addict, the seducer. Suppressed aggressivity, on the other hand, is a result of a lack of guidance and form in handling the man’s vital force – the hero, the warrior.
In conclusion, G. Carneau urges fathers to be present in the lives of boys since early childhood, share intimacy from toddler age and initiate young boy into the world of men with transitional rituals (examples cited in the book).
Men know about those things, the problem is they don’t talk about them!
Ahoj vespolek,
Prinasim informace o tom kde cestuji, co jim, co ctu a trocha kulturniho soku na zaver.
Fotoreport najdete na holistr.net
Kde cestuji:
V Unoru za mnou prijeli nejlepsi pratele do CIny. Petr, Jakub a David si udelali 3 tydenni vylet po krasach Jihozapadni Ciny. Navstivil jsem s nimi 石林(shilin) Kameny les; mesto Kunming(昆明), Dali(大理) a Lijiang(丽江); v provincii Yunnan(云南), V Chengdu(成都), kolebce sechuanske(四川) kuchyne jsme se byli podivat na unikatni tisice let stary zavlazovaci system dujiangyan(都江堰) a posvatnou horu Taoismu Qing Cheng. Zatimco ja jsem branil svou diplomku, kluci stihly jeste prespat v chramu na hore Emei a prohlednout si narodni Cinsky poklad – pandy.
Co jim:
S cestovanim je spojene debuzirovani a samozrejme dobre jidlo. Zkusil jsem hodne noveho a skoro se zamiloval do Ynnanske kuchyne. Delam si srandu 😀 Nemaji tam Sechuansky pepr huajiao (花椒), takze smula. Nudle, knedlicky, Pekingska kachna po sechuansku, durian, hot-pot a dalsi.
Po prijezdu jsem presel na slow-carb abych se dostal na leto do formy.
Co Ctu:
Knihy: Edward W. Said – Orientalismus (CZE) – Po pulrocni odmlce jsem Saida opet vzal na monitor a docelt behem tydne zbyvajicich 250 stranek. Jedna citace za vsechny “ To understand is to perceive patterns. – Rozumet znamena uvedomovat si vzorce.”
Clanky: Porovnani a testovani 4 popularnich systemu na uceni se novym zvykum (ENG) – coach.me obeznikCituji: “Dulezite je naucit se dovednosti vytvareni a pretvareni navyku, tak abyste mohli efektivne ziskavat potrebnou sadu navyku pro urcite casove obdobi.”
Skala utlacovanosti – jak LGBT komunita narazila na tu muslimskou a se zlou se potazala.
Kluturni rozdily:
Nebylo by to asi cinske kino, kdyby tam rodice nevzali 6 lete decko, ktere ke konci filmu neudrzi kocentraci – ano bylo to 2h10min – a zacne se divat na svuj oblibeny kresleny serial na mobilu s hlasitym zvukem. Uprostred IMEX kino salu(doslova, neb mela s maminkou nejlepsi mista) s 250 lidmi. Ocividne meli tu posledni scenu vyskrtnout. No jak byste podobnou situaci resili vy – z pohledu rodice?
Diky pratele a kamaradi, ze jste na prijmu. Budu posilat zajimavosti o Cine a z Ciny dal. Dejte vedet, ktera ze sekci vas nejvic bavi a o cem psat priste.
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